The Other Side Of Hollywood: Mark Duplass Opens Up About Struggle With Anxiety
Mark Duplass isnt a household name. He just happens to have a household face.
The actor/producer has been all over our screens in recent years, including co-starring in Apple TV+s The Morning Show and popping up in The Mindy Project, Paddleton and FXs The League, to name just a few high-profile projects.
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Youd think he has it all a bustling Hollywood schedule without the perils of A-list fame, the respect of his community, and the ability to tell stories on his own terms via his production company.
Thats both right and wrong.
Duplass has been sharing his mental health journey on Instagram, and it might come as a shock to those assuming his life teems with happiness. Most stars use the platform to peddle products, promote their latest films, or just connect with admirers.
Duplass has something else in mind.
Hes been revealing his struggles with depression and anxiety in ways that strip the veneer off his celebrity life.
Today I am feeling a little sad. Can I say that and be okay with it? And not spend the day in fear that this small sadness will grow into a sadness monster that might take me down? Maybe I can even be grateful for the ability to hold this sadness (not run from it) and place it next to some hope Ive been nurturing. And just let them co-mingle for a bit, like nervous strangers at a dinner party. And just kinda see what happens. Because, as many of you know, sadness is not the same thing as depression. Sadness is a feeling Im grateful to feel. Sadness we can work with.
So yeah. Im a little sad. And a little hopeful. Thats pretty good.
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Its a far cry from his dude bro character on FXs The League, which ran for five seasons and celebrated the kind of male bonding that eschews therapeutic talk.
Heres another example:
The sheer amount of things I can do/see/experience/consume on a daily bases [sic] has increased drastically in my lifetime, and I dont think its made me happier. When I look back at some of the most wonderful moments in my life, they were surprisingly super small. The quiet of a long winter hike and the delayed gratification of eating my homemade 62 cent peanut butter and jelly sandwich once I reach the summit.This epically small stuff is the easiest to access, and its really lifting me up right now. I hope it might do something similar for you. View this post on Instagram
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At times his updates are gently positive and life-affirming. Then he might share some of the singer-songwriters who have helped him through rough patches with their art, like Cassandra Jenkins, The Milk Carton Kids, Adrianne Lenker and The Paper Kites.
Theyre not household names, either, but heres betting some of Duplass followers will be investigating their music sooner than later.
Its not a one-way conversation, a chance for a celebrity to wax on about his emotional state. His deeply personal essays inspire plenty of feedback from fans and those eager to hear his latest updates. Mental health professionals also weigh in, cheering his efforts to connect with followers in a way above and beyond the celebrity circuit.
Hes also using Instagram to chat with mental health professionals from the nonprofit group To Write Love on Her Arms about his feelings and how they can collectively help others. Plus, these social media events raise money for mental health scholarships, and hes offered to donate up to $10,000 toward the cause.
Hes not alone in his Hollywood struggles, of course.
For every star who publicly confesses about their past sins, others genuinely share their personal struggles. Robert Downey, Jr. helped build the Marvel Cinematic Universe from the ground up, but before flying high as Iron Man he struggled with severe addiction issues.
He even spent time in prison before conquering his demons, and hes been open about his struggles along the way.
Actor Michael J. Fox turned his Parkinsons disease diagnosis into a foundation that raises millions to battle the incurable illness.
Another star who appears to have it all is Angelina Jolie. Shes an Oscar-winning actress whose wealth and fame have been secure for decades. Yet she recently admitted to The Wall Street Journal Magazine that she loathes living in the public eye and longs to move to a more authentic place rather than spend time in Los Angeles.
When I was starting out, it wasnt as much of an expectation to be as public, to share so much. Its part of what happened after my divorce. I lost the ability to live and travel as freely. I will move when I canI grew up in quite a shallow place. Of all the places in the world, Hollywood is not a healthy place. So you seek authenticity.
Celebrities routinely virtue signal on social media and via fawning interviews. Its empty blather, for the most part, opinions that change few hearts and minds. Sometimes, the stars are just posturing for the next gig with their pre-packaged opinions.
What Duplass, Downey Jr., and Fox have done is different. Its personal and substantial, the case of stars using their bully pulpit to make a difference in the lives of others.
Thats real star power.
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Christian Toto is an award-winning journalist, movie critic and editor ofHollywoodInToto.com. He previously served as associate editor with Breitbart News Big Hollywood. Follow him at@HollywoodInToto.
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